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It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in infidelity. It is less a movement toward the other person and more a movement away from one's spouse.

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1. The affair may be a direct response to the affair of the spouse. "I'll show you! Take this! I want you to hurt as much as I hurt." Or the affair may be revenge for some other form of cut-off or perceived emotional injury: "I'm not getting enough here, so I'll show you!" Or, "There, I got your attention!"

2. This typically occurs in a marriage where effective personal confrontation does not happen or happens ineffectively. There is a mistrust of expressing one's self fully to the other person. The marriage relationship usually is marked by civility Wholesale Sports NFL Jerseys , but the two, in essence, do not know each other very well. They are polite, but there is no fire. They may want more Wholesale Authentic NFL Jerseys , but are not sure how to get more.

3. The fire that does exist is a smoldering tension under the surface of the marriage. The tension may be the result of the frustration that one or both experience when they believe their needs are not being met. There is a genuine desire for more ? from the spouse ? but it's not happening.

4. This form of revenge affair serves as a wake-up call for the relationship. If, and I use the word if advisedly, the couple can "get it out" ? drain off the tension ? and begin talking about needs, yes Wholesale NFL Jerseys Cheap , the relationship stands a very good chance of turning into something wonderful. One or both must say with a great deal of passion, "I REALLY want you! I no longer will settle for the boiling frustration and seeming indifference to my needs. This is what I need and expect?.."

5. There is another kind of revenge affair that holds less hope and is more destructive. A revenge affair may be the result of long-standing and unresolved anger or rage toward the opposite sex. There is a persistent pattern of the person pushing others away with rage or anger. There also is a great deal of projection, or this person blaming others for hisher situation.

6. This form of anger is more rage than frustration. The rage emerges from a desire to hurt rather than from the frustration of needs not being met. This person exhibits little concern, as well Wholesale NFL Jerseys Online , for the other person. Whereas someone more frustrated because they want their needs met, is usually more considerate of the other person.

Tip: Begin to make distinctions between rage and frustration. Determine the type of revenge affair you must face. If it is rage, learn to protect yourself and set boundaries. Begin to take exceptional care of yourself. Begin to say no! If it is an affair of frustration, begin looking at your needs. Identify and express those needs. Take a risk. Turn up the passion button. Dare to engage about needs Wholesale NFL Jerseys From China , both yours and the others.

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The Hero's Journey: Tin Men (1987) deconstructed [basic]

FADE IN: 50's cars; the 50's.

Meeting the Hero: BB in the showroom.

Hero's Ordinary World: distracted by talk about chicks.

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Hero's Professional World: he knows all the sales tricks.

Developing antihero: Tilley walks out on his wife.

Developing Hero: BB gets an overnight if the car breaks down.

Inciting Incident: Tilley crashes into BB; they argue.

Call to Adventure: I'm gonna get even with you.

Hero's Professional World: BB walks into the office.

Meeting the Loyal Ally: Mo playing cards with the boys.

Hero and Loyal Ally interaction: BB tells Mo and the boys he's already smashed the car.

Conscious Decision: I'm gonna get this guy.

Allies: Tilley tells the boys in the caf?; they know BB.

Conscious Decision: Tilley's gonna get this guy.

Developing Characters and Relationships: talking Bonanza; in the caf? etc.

Devolved State: BB does Life magazine.

Devolved State: Tilley not selling anything.

Meeting the Mentor and Magical Gift: Tilley gets an advance from the boss.

Warning: the home improvement commission is on the prowl.

Threshold Marker: BB smashes Tilley's car.

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Meeting the Romantic Challenge: Tilley goes home to Nora; I don't understand picnics.

Outer Cave: Tilley finds the blue Caddy and smashes it.

Middle Cave: Meeting the Shape Shifter: Stanley's first day.

Push to the Inner Cave: BB finds his car.

Push to the Physical Separation: I wonder if he's married.

Inner Cave: BB hits on Tilley's wife.

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